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To have a close, intimate marriage with both partners maturing in Christ and growing closer together is a wonderful blessing. This section shares information on how this can be possible, with the husband loving his wife and the wife respecting her husband. Just click on the titles of the books/information below to investigate ordering it and having it delivered to your home.
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However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
Ephesians 5:33
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Secrets to Lasting Love
Uncovering the Keys To Life-Long Intimacy
By Gary Smalley
This book teaches you how to have good communication in your marriage. There are many problems that arise from lack of good communication. The book uses examples to illustrate these problems. Gary then gives five distinct levels of communication to help couples understand at what level they are at and how to go further to the fifth intimate level.

“Secrets to Lasting Love” has some simple tests that a couple can use to determine how well they relate to each other. Further tests reveal what their spouse’s personality is, so that they can honor each other’s differences. If a couple is having difficulty in honoring each other Gary gives a chart of examples on how to change negative responses to positive responses. He helps you list what you like about your spouse and how well you handle trials in your marriage to reveal how much you honor your spouse. Gary encourages you to keep an “honor book” so you will value your partner more.

Gary then talks about communication and answers questions such as: “How do you really listen?” and “What can improve my listening skills?” Gary then defines different listening levels and teaches how to be the best listener for your spouse. Different styles of speech also contribute to positive or negative feelings in your relationship and Gary helps you develop better styles.

The book also contains information on the seven love needs that can recharge your spouse. Gary gives you some example of women’s needs and men’s needs so you can start thinking about meeting your spouse’s needs. If you spend twenty minutes a day and use the ideas presented in this book, you can begin to uncover the keys you need to have life-long intimacy in your marriage.
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Boundaries in Marriage
By Dr. Henry Cloud and
Dr. John Townsend
Problem: The spouses are not growing individually in a marriage or one spouse is being forced to give up all their needs for the other spouse. The spouses not communicating well in a marriage.

Boundaries in Marriage helps couples that are struggling for a proper balance in their marriage and also helps those who want a deeper level of communication. Drs. Cloud and Townsend help you to see marriage as a rewarding experience of growth both as individuals and as a couple.

Using a strong biblical base, this book talks about how to love, communicate, build character and increase freedom and encouragement as you grow together in your marriage.
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Boundaries in Marriage Workbook
By Dr. Henry Cloud and
Dr. John Townsend
This book helps to enhance your understanding of the Boundaries in Marriage book with added questions and information. It helps develop individuality in your thoughts and also helps spouses to communicate with each other. This workbook is great for helping couples or small groups of couples.
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